Monday 23 January 2017

We have tomorrows for a reason

When we wake up in the morning, we are most likely to plan our day and prioritize our responsibilities. Even though we have a lot of problems in our lives but we wake up wanting to make something work for the day.

We want to get those payments processed; make that client happy; close that deal and make that money. We somehow want to get something done in spite of what we are faced with. That’s what tomorrows are for.

No matter how today might go. Today might have been the worst day of your life or the hardest. It might have been the day you wept like never before, or the day you were humiliated badly, or even the most stranded day you have ever had. You might be powerless today and you might not see any future of you. You might be devastated so much that you are for some reason forced to live a life you have no idea how to live it.



It’s okay for you to feel like that for now. Just for now. Because the great experience that pain will give you is priceless. You will be able to tell your story through that pain. However, there is a reason why there’s a TOMORROW.

Tomorrow is there for you to make what failed today work. It is there for you to turn yesterday’s no into a big YES. Tomorrow is there for you to make it better for YOU and not everybody else. It is there for you to materialize your plan and set it to motion. Tomorrow is for you to rise and wipe away yesterday’s tears and wear a smile. Tomorrow is always meant to be better than today and yesterday.

Remember, it does not matter how many tomorrows you will need in order for you to reach just that one goal, dream or even healing in your life. But each and every tomorrow draws you closer and closer to your dream and further away from your sorrow.

Make use of tomorrow and stay blessed!

Saturday 21 January 2017

Not Everything is Constructive

I know that about 80% of my readers are people who have followed my life for years now. People who know the ins and outs of my life from a young age until I was removed from the spotlight.

I recently spoke to someone who told me that among all other stories of people who fell mine was the worst. I usually don't want to know what people are saying about me but this time I wanted to know why am I considered the worst. I knew this would hurt me deeply but I wanted to know any way.

Hearing about it made me realize that the story of how and why I fell wasn't actually the worst but rather, those who told it were the worst ones. Its amazing how people can say anything to make themselves look better in font of others. Caring less about their own salvation as well as the salvation of the soul they are crucifying.

My defense to him was, believe whatever you want to believe. I was not going to say anything to justify myself. That´s what I´ve been doin
g for the past year anyway. In this God is the one who is to speak for me when He sees fit to do so.

We all have freedom of speech by the law... and yes, it is our right to speak of whatever we feel like venting out. Also, we can do whatever we want.  But while doing it, we always have to remember that:

"I have the right to do anything," you say--but not everything is beneficial. "I have the right to do anything"--but not everything is constructive." 1 Corinthians 10:23

Stay Blessed!!!

Tuesday 17 January 2017

Orphan

As orphans we tend to ask ourselves questions like:  Why am I still alive? What is the purpose of my life? Each beginning year we want to know where to fro here? and all that is painful because we are being reminded of how aloe we are.

Loneliness is not pretty. It is sharp and pieces straight through the heart. We ca have friends and people whom we live with but the emptiness of not having a parent, never goes away. It´s a pain we try curing our entire lives but it just never goes away. 

Well, this is what´s important about us all orphans -  we survived.  We survived the pain, we survived the fact that we are orphans and we are still surviving the loneliness and wanting to talk but can´t because no one understands us like mom or like dad.

With that, we can continue knowing that we are survivors. 

Stay blessed!!!