Many ladies come to me with sobs crying that they are single and they need to have someone in their lives as soon as possible. It is not wrong if that's what their faith says to them. But the problem is when they see that guy they like and they really want to date him. They do all things to call his attention for him to start noticing them.
They expect they guy to make a move and approach them but then he doesn't. Maybe he is less interested or he's just taking his time. But the frustration exhilarates as he is not making any move.
Then they start beating themselves up because the guy is not saying anything. This is wrong! Are you a toilet that if a guy has feelings for you he has to come to you just like that without any sense of fear or respect? Are you so much of a toilet that whenever a guy wants to say something he has to say it however and whenever it pleases him?
Well, if you are valuable, he has to respect you. He has to really sweat even before he can say a word to you. Whoever has a pee goes to the nearest toilet. Regardless of where the toilet is situated or of whom it belongs to. It might be in the house of the president or in the house of a poor man in the country but the bottom line is that IT IS A TOILET and it is used for the same thing by whoever!
So ladies, value yourselves. Thank God every time a guy struggles to approach you because it simply means you are too valuable.
Stay blessed!
This is so true Thato, the mouth that praises God cannot utter sewage. I am truly blessed.
ReplyDeleteThank you Thato, words that come out from our mouths can be very dangerous especially when they show a decided character. God bless you
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